Support and Generosity

Has it already been over a month since Lydia was born?! She of course has changed and grown so much over the past month. Being born at 7lb 6 oz, she is now over 9 pounds and starting to outgrow some of her newborn clothes. She is definitely becoming more aware of the world around her. The other night I was able to catch her attention with a toy and even get her to follow it with her eyes for a while when I moved it back and forth in front of her. Her sleep patterns are fluxuating, with her waking up more in the middle of the night than she used to. One thing is certain, it is a conflict of interest to have Lydia staring up at you with her wide awake but content eyes at 2 am when you are tired and want to go back to bed. Overall things are still going well, and I know personally that I am not pulling my fair share. Elizabeth has shown herself to be a wonderful mother to Lydia - she is absolutely giving of herself and does so with great pride and joy. I cannot thank her enough for the wonderful love and support that she is giving to Lydia and myself.

Over the past month we have continually been showered with many wonderful gifts from many people that certainly have helped us greatly. I know that even as all of us think about where the economy is going to go next, we have all these persons giving to us so abundantly! In addition to the gifts, we have also had wonderful friends and family come and cook meals for us and offer to help out with whatever we may need help with. If anybody loves to rake leaves, do I have just the yard for you! :)

More important than the gifts is knowing that Lydia has such wonderful friends and family that already love and support her. These friends and family will be there to help Lydia develop, grow, and discover the world.

We look forward to getting to introduce her to everyone who has yet to meet her!

First Time for Everything

It is a lot of fun helping Lydia experience many of her "firsts." Let's see, in the past week she has experienced her first doctor's appointment, first restaurant, and even her first trip to Target. Last Sunday she went to her first church service where she was the absolute center of attention! Yesterday she went on her first shopping trip with Mommy (and did just great!)

I got on this path of thinking while Elizabeth and I were talking about the many things that she is learning and will only know through experience. It is amazing the many instincts that she knows, but there is so so much that she has to learn - and I am sure she is learning every moment.

I actually get pretty excited thinking of all the things that she has yet to experience and that I get to help in the process. I will most likely get to be there when she gets to feel grass for the first time or the first time that snow falls on her face (hopefully not too soon!). We will get to push her on her first swing and be with her on her first plane trip. Oh, I could go on and on, but I will stop because I don't think I am ready to start thinking about first trips to school or first bike rides! No, I will just try to savor ever small moment and hope that time won't pass by too quickly (which it will, of course).

Other exiting things that happened this week:

• Uncle Mike, Uncle Steve, Aunt Mary, and Cousin Maria came to meet Lydia for the first time.
• Grandma and Grandpa came to visit for a few hours on their way to New York Mills
• Daddy went back to work this week
• I accidentally flipped over to my stomach !

Two Weeks

It is hardly believable that two weeks have passed since Lydia's birth. But, then again, it is amazing how much we have done, learned, and witnessed over those same two weeks. I would have figured that it would be months before I would look the part of a parenting veteran - but now I can already see that both Elizabeth and I have quickly found our comfort zone in regards to caring for Lydia. Passing her off to one another or somebody is no longer done with full fear of "breaking" the baby. Instead we are now more relaxed and are really starting to have fun with our daughter.

I have to say, that this transition would have been many many times more difficult if we would not have had the wonderful help of Elizabeth's parents throughout these two weeks. I am not sure how we would have done it without Jack and Cynthia there to help around the house and be an extra set of arms that were more than willing to hold Lydia while Elizabeth and I rested or took care of other things. When Cynthia left on Friday, there was a moment of panick for both Elizabeth and I as we realized that we were "on our own" to take care of Lydia (and ourselves).

Well, Over 24-hours have passed, and I think that we will make it work. Lydia and I even had our first experience figuring out getting her fed and changed in a public place while mommy was on campus for class. I now know that College men's restrooms are not the ideal place to change a baby! No matter what happens in the next weeks and months, it is comforting to know that we have great support available from both sets of our parents and they are only a phone call away.

Here are this weeks pictures (note that some have been added since they were first posted).

Thanks to Cynthia/Nana for all her great photography! We will never be able to thank her enough for all the great memories that were captured during her visit. We will be doing our best to continue the great pictures coming!